There is no way of refraining from saying all the possible things that come to my mind ALOUD.
I have just done it again - such a poor boy!
I have just reminded a phrase that Sandra Nore said a few years ago: ''When you are speaking in front of the public, you fill the whole space with yourself. People feel so squeezed to the walls''.
And it is always like this - as soon as I start conveying my thoughts - there is no escape for others. This has been inherited from my father.